Have you seen a twitter feed recently that proclaimed The Beauty of the Dad Bod? Did you have to do a double take? If you have never heard the phrase before – have a little fun and do an image search on Google for Dad Bod.
The first thing that comes up will likely be a man who once resembled Jay Gatsby, Howard Hughes, and Romeo. Thats right, Leonardo Decaprio himself put on a couple pounds and now has a paunch. Wherefore art thou Romeo? He went to the bar and had an extra beer and a bowl of pretzels to work on his physique.
Thats right, the current en vogue body, at least for some segment of the population, is one that doesnt resemble Matthew McConaughey. In fact it probably looks more like… your Uncle Donnie thats a Dad Bod.
So where did all this start?
Apparently a female student at Clemson wrote an article that extolled the virtues of the Dad Bod. It went viral, touched the polar ice caps, saved global warming and now at least part of the world loves something that does not look fit – at least in a traditional sense. In the event you didnt hear that right its repeated here for clarity: Dads, the verdict is in, College Coeds say they like a guy who looks out of shape. Seriously, are you paying attention yet?
All you have to do to draw a look on the beach from Hannah and her Horse, and a scowl from your wife, is drink beer and relax! It just doesnt feel right? Well, it might not be healthy, but here is the psychology for why the Dad Bod is in.
At least this is how one Dad understands it, from a womans perspective…
1. The Dad Bod spells success.
The guy who burns the candle at both ends is the one who is climbing the success ladder for his family. That is his priority. At the end of the day he crashes to the couch and grabs a beer – no questions asked. Women want to see a man who works his butt off to advance himself and his family, and they want to hug him at the end of the day.
2. Id rather work on your body than my own.
Its not meant in a perverse sense, but instead a dad who gives his wife time. The little paunch represents a guy who takes care of the kids for 90 minutes while his wife goes to the gym or does Zumba. Its not glamour for this dad – its life. And his wife loves him for it.
3. The confidence to get what he wants.
Sir you can add guac to the burrito, but its $2.50 extra. The guy who nods, yep with confidence is one that not only has money but also takes control. You see what you want and you go after it, even at the cost of $2.50 and 200 calories. Hubba-hubba.
4. Women can be themselves.
If a guy has 6-pack abs and his lady friend doesnt, is that more or less likely to make her feel comfortable? Yeah a little tire around your side may give her permission to go for the cheesecake. That bit of non-verbal communication goes a long way. It also means you might order one with her and double up the pleasure.
5. “Dads have abundant free-time to kill at the gym” – said no Dad ever.
If you went to the gym every night after work that might mean you were putting more time into your abs instead of time into that project that your boss said was so important to the firm. That could make your old lady nervous, better hit the stapler instead of the curl machine Daddy-o.
6. Your body is a movie trailer.
What would Hugh Jackman look like if he lost his Wolverine-like physique? If you have a tough time picturing Wolverine out of shape, you are not alone. If a woman falls in love with a guy who looks a bit rotund now, she knows exactly what the future holds. Men get the chance to preview with the old saying: If you can live with what the mother-in-law looks like now, then you will be good in 20 years. Women have that luxury with a Dad Bod. Ahhhh, isnt that comforting?
7. Snuggle-time is never further than an arms length away.
Women may not love watching Game of Thrones, but with the prospect of being pet while laying on a soft cushy midsection, thats a different story. All of a sudden it may not be that hard to watch a stunning blonde woman fly on a dragons back while conquering the world.
This is a fad, right? It has to be.
Think back to the days of Marilyn Monroe or Elizabeth Taylor; and what the expectation of a beautiful body was then and what it is now.
Everyone knows Elizabeth’s swimsuit style is already coming back in fashion.
Perhaps the times are changing to reflect a shift in our expectations. The idea being that our bodies are more “realistic” and that all people are perfect just as they are.
What’s next guys? Likely the “Mom Bod”. And we love it!