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Naughty or nice? Valentine’s Day is the perfect holiday to show your significant other not only how much you love them, but also how sexy you feel to be with them. Are you looking for the perfect gift to fire up the bedroom? Whether this is something to wear or to use during your sensual time with your love, this gift guide is for you!
If you’ve been around here for any length of time, you’ve probably heard about our total love affair with the Womanizer Deluxe clitoral stimulator, and once you’ve tried it, it’s easy to see why. And if you haven’t tried the Womanizer… do. it. now. We cannot sing its praises enough. This one-of-a-kind toy uses indirect stimulation, which is more important than you may realize. Traditional vibrators come into direct contact with the clitoris, and that can desensitize this super sensitive area. And desensitization means it will become increasingly harder for you to reach orgasm, because you become dependent on a high intensity level of stimulation.
The Womanizer Deluxe has a unique O-shaped stimulator, which forms a seal around the clitoris, and gives a gentle suction that will send you to climax faster, and for longer, than you ever have experienced before. There are eight different levels of intensity, and a beautiful Swarovski crystal on/off button. This toy will fit easily in the palm of your hand, and reaches a full charge within two hours. Each charge lasts up to 240 minutes, and considering most women reach orgasm within one minute of using the Womanizer, that’s 240 orgasms on a single charge!
For more bedroom play, try the Tryst multi-erogenous massager. This powerful vibe can be used by men, women, or for couples – either solo or during sex. It’s a penis ring, clitoral stimulator, nipple stimulator, and more. Tryst has an incredibly unique shape (and dare we say, we wouldn’t know this was a sex toy just by looking at it!) that can be used for external or internal stimulation, and comes fully loaded with not one, not two, but three motors – one in the base, and one in each arm, which each have seven variations of vibration, pulsation, and escalating vibration.
Tryst’s super smooth silicone surface is firm yet flexible, and is easily recharged with the included USB charging cable. You get 90 minutes of use on a single charge, which is more than enough for multiple sessions with this incredible massager. The arm and base motors operate independently of one another, and the base has subtle ridges for extra stimulation. This is definitely a crowd-pleaser – whether for solo play or enhancing sex with your partner.
One of the most important things you should do when using sex toys is to clean them. This is an often overlooked but critical task – and usually, not very fun. That’s why we love the Dorr Wavecare Toy Cleaner. It simplifies sex toy cleaning into one easy step – throw the toy inside the Dorr box and turn it on. Within two minutes, the UV light will kill or inactivate 99.9% of bacteria, molds, and viruses. Easy peasy!
The Dorr Wavecare Toy Cleaner fits toys up to 8.5″ x 3.5″ and comes equipped with a built-in timer that shuts off after two minutes. Inside the box is a lithium-ion rechargeable battery, that will last 30+ cleaning sessions on one charge (with a 2-hour charge time). The box will automatically shut off if it’s tipped over or the lid falls off, and the circular button on top indicates when the box is turned on.
Perfect gift for anyone looking to spice up or reignite their sex life, whether with a partner or alone!
About Adam & Eve
Adam & Eve is the largest provider of adult products in the United States, and has served over 10 million customers since they opened up in 1971. Their stunning array of products will impress even the most discerning customers. And they know sex – from toys to movies to lubes and more – this is the place to purchase all of your adult pleasure needs.
One of the best things about shopping with Adam & Eve is that your purchases are incredibly discreet. Your order will arrive on your doorstep in an unmarked package, with no indication of the fun, erotic goodies that are inside. They offer no-hassle 90-day returns, so if for any reason you’re unhappy with your purchase (though with these two items, we’re pretty sure you’ll be very satisfied… pun intended), you can return it with no questions asked.
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Sometimes it’s hard to feel sexy when breastfeeding. You are constantly pulling out your boob to feed your little one and while feeling like a well oiled machine, the word sexy doesn’t typically come to mind. Thankfully with brands like Cake Maternity, feeling confident and sexy is much easier. Their lingerie line is filled with great nursing bras, underwear, sleepwear, swimwear, and nursing pads to make any woman happy. With a variety of options, you can find the perfect lingerie for your lady. The bonus is many of their bras also have matching panties to make any woman feel sexy.
The Frosted Parfait bra is perfect for both plus size and normal sized women. This sexy balconette-styled nursing bra is made of lace and mesh and is lined with 100% cotton for your comfort. It is a real standout in light grey and has unique monochromatic textured patterns. As a nursing bra, it has six hooks in the back so you can adjust the band width, and the cups are stretchy to allow for growth. Available in a 32-40 with cup sizes ranging from a C through K.
Complete the look to feel confident and sexy when you pair it with the matching Frosted High Waisted Brief, which is perfect for postpartum and beyond.
The ultimate bra is the lotus yoga and pumping bra. This sports bra will quickly become your favorite daily bra. The seamless and double layered design provides medium support and is perfect for moms who are nursing and pumping. Available in three different colors, this is the perfect bra for a mom on the go.
Perfect gift for breastfeeding moms who want to feel comfortable and look sexy.
About Cake Maternity
Cake Lingerie first introduced its award-winning, fashion-forward line of maternity lingerie and loungewear in 2008. In 2014, the company rebranded as Cake Maternity to reflect an expanded range of collections designed to support the needs of pregnant and breastfeeding women. Through its strong commitment to quality, luxury, and fit, Cake Maternity continues to pioneer the future of premium, highly constructed and beautifully designed products for the maternity lifestyle.
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Make this Valentine’s Day the spiciest one yet, even if your Valentine is on the other side of the world! All you need is a smartphone, an Umie toy, and a big imagination. This slick pleasure toy brings the best of self pleasure with an added side of interaction from the one who knows you best.
Download the Umie app and allow your partner to control the Umie while you use it, whether that be heating it up – ooo la la – increasing the vibration intensity, matching vibrations to videos or music for an even more immersive experience, or even voice controlling the toy, whether he’s in the same room or overseas.
There is so much to explore and so much personalization with the Umie, this is one pleasure toy in your arsenal that you won’t get bored with.
- Connects to the Umie app
- Four-way Smart Power
- Control the heat, the intensity, and the vibration modes either on the device or from your phone – or from your partner’s phone via the app, from anywhere in the world!
- Adjustable heat setting heats up to 103 degrees Fahrenheit
- Can be voice activated via the app
- Umie body is made of durable, safe silicone
- Ergonomically designed
- Power cord for charging included
- 4 hour battery life
Perfect gift for a woman alone or for the couple who likes to stay “connected” in the best way possible.
Tantriss brings retailers adult products that are all about giving and receiving pleasure, in the most high quality and satisfying way possible. Umie was created as a way to connect couples, no matter how far apart they may be, with a smart-technology controlled pleasure device that brings the ancient practice of Tantra to a modern generation. They believe in allowing couples and women to experience the ultimate in enlightenment through the discovery of a new level of sexual communication.
Soft fabrics, light colors, and a little lace are the perfect combination to make a woman feel pampered and pretty even while nursing her sweet babe around the clock. Nursing lingerie by Belabumbum does just that – creating beautiful nursing bras and matching panties that are not only fully functional, but also absolutely gorgeous.
The Rachelle Nursing Bra in Rose is a cotton-lined, mesh and spandex bra that is intricately detailed in soft lace with a sweet bow. The bra features one-handed drop down nursing clips, six clasp back closure, supportive wireless cups, and adjustable shoulder straps. Paired with the Rachelle Lace Boycut Panty, which features delicate lace, both feminine and comfortable, this entire ensemble is sure to make the new mom in your life feel good in her new, beautiful body.
Another lingerie essential is an elegant and comfortable sleep nursing bra. The Ariel Sleep Bra is perfectly designed for not only providing gorgeous support, but also for providing excellent comfort as you sleep, and easy pull-aside access for a nursing baby. This racerback bra is made of 100% Pima Cotton Jersey and made to hold nursing pads in place, if needed.
For the perfect lingerie outfit, pair the sleep bra with the Pearl Lace Boyshort Panty, boasting beautiful stretch lace that stays in place and a low-rise appeal.
Perfect gift for the new mom deserving a bit of pampering and luxury.
What began in 2001 as boutique lingerie wear has morphed itself into the epitome of comfort and luxury in maternity and nursing lingerie. Focused on reminding moms and moms-to-be to take care of themselves and enhancing the bond between mom and baby, Belabumbum incorporates the softest ethically sourced fabrics into mom and baby friendly designs. From intimates, sleep and lounge wear, to active clothing for the new mom and new mom-to-be, the company strives to make every mother feel beautiful and pampered each moment of the day.
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Every couple can benefit from a little spice in the bedroom, and Valentine’s Day is the perfect occasion to pick out a new toy (or two) that you can both enjoy. Building intimacy in the bedroom will help you and your partner feel closer, have better communication, and ultimately, enjoy sex more. Couple’s toys are an opportunity to share what starts your engine and explore those experiences together.
When you’re ready to add some extra stimulation to your love life, look no further than LELO. With a large variety of luxury vibrator options, you’re bound to find a new accessory that belongs in your bedside table. Our pick for Valentine’s Day is the Alone Together Gift Set, featuring a pair of vibrating massagers that will make you want to celebrate Valentine’s Day every night of the week.
Start your evening with the TOR 2 Vibrating Ring. Worn by your man while you make love, the phthalate-free silicone is soft to the touch and comfortable to wear. With six settings to choose from, you can enjoy experimenting to find the setting and position that suits you both the most.
No Valentine’s Day is complete without a marathon evening of lovemaking, and for round two, the NOA couples massager will put your holiday celebration over the top. Worn by the woman while having sex, the NOA gently vibrates against your clitoris and g-spot at the same time. He’ll experience the vibrating sensations right alongside you as you both thank Cupid for bringing this new toy into your bedroom.
- Waterproof, allowing you to enjoy the TOR and NOA wherever passion strikes
- Fully rechargeable and long lasting batteries stay powered through multiple love making sessions
- Discrete carry cases allow for convenient storage
Perfect gift to enjoy together.
Three designers came together with the idea of reinventing intimate items so that they could be as luxurious and beautiful as the items we are proud to show off in our homes. Combining technology and a passion for sensation, LEO has reinvented products for the bedroom, bringing luxury to condoms, personal massagers, and couple’s items. Products are developed with an eye for design and quality, bringing a fresh take to an industry that is traditionally kept behind closed doors. The high quality design and beauty of each LELO will make your bedroom adventures something you want to share with your closest girlfriends.
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From the ultra cool company who brings the world no ordinary sock, comes their new line of underwear, because really, what goes together better than socks and underwear? Just in time for the sexy holiday, you can gift your lover a badass pair of underwear – and we mean that literally; go ahead, click on the link.
Or make underwear buying even better by doing what every couple hates, matching! For us weirdos who want to show off hairy creatures holding hearts on our hineys, then grab a pair of the Valentine’s Day special. You’ve got the founder of E=mc2, you’ve got flamingos, you’ve got the big dipper, you’ve got a taco dinosaur hybrid… there really isn’t a normal pair of panties in the bunch, and that’s why we’re so smitten.
- Tight boxer briefs all the way baby
- Contour pouch with no fly for maximum support – plus no one wants a dick slip
- Super soft jersey blended with spandex to be ultra-stretchy
- 95% cotton 5% elastane
- Low-rise bikini style – giving the granny panty a run for her money
- Super soft jersey blended with spandex to be ultra-stretchy
- Stretchy lace trim on waist and legs – to try to sex up the baby deer a bit
- 95% cotton 5% elastane
Perfect gift for guys and gals who love a little spunk in the trunk!
About Sock It To Me
They sell socks. Really, really cool socks.
In 2004 the magic began, and from humble beginnings grew a sock empire that now rocks the world. Sock It To Me outfits American, British, and all the other feet (and now buttocks) from around the world in coverings that are funky, eclectic, and just plain awesome. Offering hundreds of original designs in sizes for baby toes to old man toes, you could potentially never wear the same sock twice, and why would you when everyday is as different as the next!
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Breastfeeding is a truly beautiful gift of love – but sometimes it doesn’t feel so beautiful. From bulky breast pads to catch leaking milk, to clunky, grandma-like nursing bras, it can be hard to still feel sexy as a breastfeeding mom. Enter Dairy Fairy’s Ayla bra – the perfect way to feel sexy on a Valentine’s Day date with your partner, while also accommodating the needs of a nursing mama. This is one of the most stunning nursing/pumping bras we have ever seen, with beautiful yet durable lace overlay and lace under-bust detail. The Ayla bra is ideal for breastfeeding, hands free pumping (no more miserable pumping sessions holding flanges up to your breasts for 20 minutes!), or simultaneous nursing and pumping.
Each Ayla hands free pumping/nursing bra is compatible with all major breast pump flanges – simply slip the flange through a hidden opening in the front of each cup and pump away – it actually is that easy! Ayla allows you to have stress-free pumping without having to change into a separate pumping bra a few times a day. The bra comes equipped with four inches of hook and eye closures, and comes in six different sizes, that fit bra sizes 32A through 40G. Choose from a variety of beautiful colors, including cream, black (shown here), and pink.
The matching panty adds the perfect finishing touch. With coordinating black lace and sweet little details like a tiny bow, you’ll feel sexy as can be this Valentine’s Day.
Perfect gift for breastfeeding moms who still want to feel sexy.
About Dairy Fairy
When Dairy Fairy creator Emily Ironi had her daughter, she was frustrated with the lack of attractive yet functional nursing bras available at the time. She set out on a mission to create beautiful bras for nursing and hands free pumping, and after a hugely successful Kickstarter campaign, Dairy Fairy was born. Their original bra, Arden, is now one of the best-selling breastfeeding and pumping bras on the market. Dairy Fairy continues to innovate and create beautiful bras, tanks, and underwear for breastfeeding moms.
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This Valentine’s Day, treat yourself to a little every day pampering and a healthier body with the gentle washes and wipes from Sweet Spot Labs. Let’s get real here ladies, it can get a little messy down there after a good time (if you know what we’re saying…). Clean up and feel fresh in a healthy way with Sweet Spot Labs.
This pH balanced feminine care line uses natural ingredients that leave all women feeling healthier and more beautiful. Your skin will be gently cleansed, hydrated, and softened. No glycerin that produces yeast! Nothing to mess up your pH and leave you at risk of infection. SweetSpot Gentle Washes use coconut based cleansers and natural oils. The scents are light and fresh, with no heavy perfumes.
If you need to freshen up on the go, they also offer wipes. The wipes cleanse and cool your most delicate area. They are perfect to keep in your gym bag or purse. You can find SweetSpot Labs online and in your local Target.
Perfect gift for every woman.
About Sweet Spot Labs
SweetSpot Labs was created by women, for women. 11 years ago a group of estheticians saw a need for products designed especially for our “sweet spots.” There was nothing on the market just for women’s most sensitive, yet important area. They created the first pH balanced feminine skincare line. Their washes and wipes are made with the best natural ingredients like shea butter and coconut oil. Your body just feels better when you use Sweet Spot Labs washes and wipes. Once you try them, you will never use another soap or go without these wipes again.
Grapefruit Verbena Gentle Wash | Neroli Mandarin Gentle Wash | Vanilla Blossom Gentle Wash | Grapefruit Verbena Wipes | Neroli Mandarin Wipes | Vanilla Blossom Wipes
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The Spice Box from Spicy Subscriptions is the sexiest subscription box ever! Each month the Spice Box delivers 1-2 toys, two full sized products, and 2-3 trial sized products discreetly to your mailbox. Shopping for intimate items like toys and lubricants can feel overwhelming or even embarrassing when you think about walking into a store front. Shopping online isn’t any easier. The options are endless and if you are new to using adult products how do you know what to try? The Spice Box gives you the opportunity to try new and exciting things at a huge discount. Keep your subscription going and the fun will keep on arriving every month.
Here is an example of the fabulous array of items you will receive in a Spice Box:
- Body Boudoir Body Dew – Pheromone Silky Body Oil
- Crazy Girl Intense Orgasm Gel
- The Screaming O Studio Mascara Vibe
- Waterproof Glitz Vibe by Pipedream
- Sample of Gun Oil Silicone Lubricant
- Sample of Pink Water – Water Based Lubricant for Women
Perfect gift for couples wanting to spice things up in the bedroom.
About Spicy Subscriptions
Spicy Subscriptions delivers the best in intimate products to improve your sex life, and they deliver them at an amazing value every month. Choose from the Spice Box, the Toy of the Month, or Lube of the Month. Plans automatically renew but you can cancel anytime. However, you won’t want to cancel. The benefits are too valuable, and trying out all the new products is way too fun. Over 80% of subscribers report experiencing an improved sex life. 87% of subscribers feel that their partner is LESS likely to cheat on them after being subscribed to Spicy Subscriptions. What could be a better Valentine’s gift than better, more exciting sex and wanting your partner even more?